Telling A Story: The Best Communication Skill In Business

communicating your message

Communication Skills in Business

A lot has been said about communicating your message successfully, especially during presentations. Blog posts have been written, debating the ‘right’ look for your deck (AKA “every time you use bullet points a kitten dies”), your tone, the data you should use, your pose, body language and what not.

That’s all fine and dandy, but will becoming a polished speaker really help your message get through? According to an experiment carried at Stanford University, the answer is – NO.

Results show “almost no correlation between ‘speaking talent’ and the ability to make ideas stick.” (Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die)

Eric Barker summarized this on Barking Up The Wrong Tree: What’s the secret to communicating memorably?:

Polished [presentation] wasn’t memorable. It was the students who used stories in their presentations that were best remembered.

I’ve seen this phenomenon first-handed two years ago. The company I worked for sent me to develop a system for a call centre of a large Israeli mobile network provider.

The system was much more intelligent than the industry’s standards, and could recognize ineffective behavior/actions of agents within seconds. Suspicious incidents where pushed to the supervisor, who was monitoring the data for anything unusual. Data highlighted in yellow meant “an event developing” and data highlighted in red meant “an event that is losing money to the company right now”. It was an awesome project! 🙂

Launch

We launched on October. By the end of the same year, my system saved our customer over $200,000. This surpassed all expectations by a mile. But when I came back next year and analyzed the logs, I realizes that the power of our system was no where near being fully utilized. This meant our customer could save even more money, if we could figure out what causes the underutilization.

“You can triple the results you’ve been seeing”, I told him. “Let me observe your supervisors’s work for a week, and I’ll tell you how.” The deal was made.

A lot of data was collected during the observation period, as every single action that supervisors took was logged. After analysis, I sat down with the call centre (CC) manager. “You have good supervisors. They are very professional and mostly doing the best they can”, I told her. “But, they have too many tasks happening at the same time, the prioritization is wrong in my opinion. A lot of their protocols are outdated or missing, and they really need some new hardware over there”

“I know all of that” she answered. “But many of these tasks root from company policies or direct requests from my boss or the GM. I’ve been asking for new hardware and more manpower for months already” she explained in despair. No one got her message.

Let Me Tell You A Story

Presenting my findings to the GM, he grilled me immediately.
“I’ve seen these STATISTICS before and I’m not buying it. Our current manpower should be able to handle this, why aren’t they? Find the real problem!” he said, suggesting an early end to our meeting. “Let me tell you a story”, I replied.

I described a typical work day of a supervisor at the company. I told him about the constant interruptions, the “urgent” reports that had to be prepared, hundreds of little emergencies that had to be attended. And on the top of everything, tens of alerts beeping from our new high-tech monitoring system, screens full of flashing red and yellow notifications….I shared their despair of the workload, the time consumed in switching between the tasks, the amount of stuff they missed while not being able to concentrate.

STOP!” He exclaimed. “But why are the doing all these tasks? They should be looking at the monitoring system and proactively handling events, not be running like headless chickens!!”

Before I knew it, we were going through each and every task a supervisor has, and he was canceling many of them. “This is not worth their time. This can be done once a week instead of twice a day. This should be done by X, not by them”. Next came my recommendations. They all accepted, effective immediately. He sent the needed emails while I was still talking.

Would that have happened if I kept focusing on number, reports and data? No. Only when he listened to a story and was taken through “a day in their life”, he understood the size of the shoes they had to fill.

Tell stories, not statistics.

Photo: © Ilike – Fotolia.com

Check out this podcast episode

I’m listening to my good friend Ralph Quintero’s podcast, and wanted to share this golden nugget with you:

“When you’re picking a coach for yourself , ask the prospect coach if he ever been coached by some other coach? you don’t want to end up picking up the guy who thinks he’s so great and clever that HE never needed help, but he can help YOU”

Podcast: The Great Business Project Podcast : For Entrepreneurs By Entrepreneurs

Episode: Episode 009 : Coaching and Doing What You Love

Find out more about the podcast at:
http://www.pocketcasts.com/share/DllzK7

The Post You Need About Branding & Engagement

I hate it when people talk or blog about branding.

It’s almost as bad as this constant B.S. being written about engagement. These two words make me want to puke. Enough with that already!

Everywhere I look, there are “proven methods” to create a brand culture and following; to entice customer engagement, and generally – become more like Apple.

The Real Secret Sauce Of Branding

You know what makes a good brand?

You know what makes customers feel engaged?

A bloody good product; Fantastic service; Great experience; Over-delivering; Quality; Fixing a problem; Fulfilling a desire – these are the core.

Of course you should have the same photo on all of your social profiles, have your own tone and claim your domain names – but without the core, all you have is a balloon full of hot air.

A wood plate with "we're engaged" curved in it

The end of should

Banks should close at 4, books should be 200 pages long, CEOs should go to college, blogs should have comments, businessmen should be men, big deals should be done by lawyers, good food should be processed, surgeons should never advertise, hit musicians should be Americans, good employees should work at the same company for years…

Find your should and make it go away.

via Seth’s Blog The end of should

Absolutely spot on. Should is irrelevant. So is ‘norm’, ‘expected’, ‘recommended’, ‘would’ and ‘had’.

“If no one else did it, you can be the first. If someone already did it, you can do it too!”

How To Secure WordPress – Common Mistakse

I’ve been seeing tons of posts recently covering the (important) subject of securing your WordPress blog. There are many blogs that are currently sharing their top 5, 10 or 20 security tips.

Why am I writing about this? Because I don’t like the fact that most of these blog posts ignore the elephant in the room, rendering their advice into…rubbish.

Garbage can in Melbourne australia with the label 'Rubbish'

 

Here’s the last one I encountered, on Copyblogger

Last week, in preparation for an interview about my work at Copyblogger’s managed WordPress hosting division, I chicken-scratched a top 10 list of tips for keeping your WordPress website(s) secure.

10 Steps to a Secure WordPress Website

Now, in that link you will find a checklist of ten (mostly valid and important) actions to take to secure your blog (and up-sell some services). So why am I not satisfied?

The Elephant In The Room

Everybody’s talking about security and importance of having “good” passwords. You’ll see tons of debating on how to choose a hard-to-hack password, but zero discussion on who can read your password???

Here’s the elephant: If you have a self-hosted WordPress blog, there’s a VERY good chance that you don’t have a secure way to log in to it . What does this mean?

If you don’t use a secure connection when you log in to your WordPress blog (and in a second I’ll show you exactly how to check if you are using one), then anyone on your local network can see your password when you click that Log In button.

Let me emphasize this again

Anyone can see your password when you log in to your WordPress blog using a non-secure connection.

This means that it doesn’t matter what-so-ever how complicated your password is. If you update your blog, approve comments or even just log in to check stats while you’re at a caffe, shopping mall or airport – congratulations, you’ve just given your password to all the other people that are using the same network like you.

How do you know if you’re using a secure connection?

When you log in to your admin panel, check if the URL (the address at the top) starts with HTTP:// (insecure) or HTTPS:// (secure). If it’s an HTTPS, this is a secure connection, and your password will not be up for grabs by your surrounding. If it says HTTP, you’re in trouble for two reasons:

  1. When you log in, you send your admin password as plain text over to the server, and any other computer on your network can read it
  2. Even if you log in at home, and select “remember me” and then access the blog from a public location, anyone can hack your account. The reason for this is that although you have logged in from your home, the server saves a special mark on your device that will allow it to be remembered. This marked is called cookie, and when you access your blog again in a public network, everyone can steal your cookie, and that will make your blog crumble!!

How To Fix This

Unfortunately, showing how to set up SSL certificates (this is what it takes to have a secure connection to your WordPress) is a subject for an entire blog, not just a post, and is definitely out of the scope for this blog.

Being a complicated setup that it is, it also completely negates the point of easy actions to improve security, like all the blog posts I mentioned advocate for.

What you should do, is contact your hosting provider and ask them to help you set up SSL connection for your blog. Notice that a shared-SSL certificate, like Hostgator (for instance) offers for free, will only allow you partial management of the blog (for instance, will allow to edit posts in HTML mode, but not in the WYSIWYG editor – which is what most people would prefer). Also take into consideration that a private SSL will cost money (few tens of dollars per year on average). If you host more than one blog on your account, take into account that you might end up being able to install SSL only on one of your blogs.

How To Fix This – The Quick & Easy Way

Don’t choose a simple & cheap shared-hosting package. Choose a Managed WordPress Hosting provider. Syntesis [this is NOT an affiliate link] is one that I heared some good stuff about, but haven’t checked them out myself. Make sure to pick a package that DOES includes SSL (their basic one doesn’t).

If you have any recommendations for managed WordPress hosting or at least one that makes it dead easy to enable SSL for WordPress on it, write me a comment!